now enrolling magnetics love school for men
"If thunderbolts and rainbows had a love child it would be Cora. She is Lisa Frank with an edge. In order for people to read people very well, they have to care for people well. Cora gave us the gift of being able to see love in its full spectrum of possibilities. Sometimes life can feel like you’re standing on the outside looking in. Cora invited us all into the party. I finally feel like I deserve all the love in the world."
- Los Angeles, 30
A few questions for you...
Does dating ever feel like a chore? A means to an end?
Does the idea of dating ever stress you out and induce disappointment?
Do dates ever feel like job interviews, devoid of romantic energy and sexual tension?
Do you ever feel "behind" in your love life? Like everyone else has got something figured out that you don't? Like there's got to be some part of this you're missing?
Have you experienced unhealthy relationships or seen them modeled to you? Do you wish you had a road map and a skillset for what actually creates THRIVING relationships?
Do you wish there was a non-judgmental space you could go to fill in any knowledge gaps, learn how to create romantic opportunities, and get crystal clear on what makes relationships work?
Do you want to know what it’s like to navigate your love life with ease, confidence, and personal flair?
Do you want an epic, healthy, sexy relationship? And soon?
Well, my friend, you've made it to the right place.
Here's the thing:
Dating is both an art form and a skill.
It is fully learn-able. It’s something that you can become very good at when you understand the variables and dynamics involved.
It’s something you can grow your confidence in when you learn to flirt and create attraction, when you learn to read feedback, when you learn to create opportunities for yourself, when you understand how to progress the connection, when you learn to communicate effectively.
It’s something we can ENJOY when you custom devise your approach that works for you and your lifestyle, when you navigate it all with your own personal flair.
Because you don't need to change who you are in order to be great at dating, in order to enjoy it, in order to attract the partner and relationship you want.
You just need to understand the landscape, context, dynamics, and variables at play.
Dating should enrich your life, not stress you out.
When you know what you're doing, it gives you energy. It doesn't drain your energy.
When you understand the landscape, you know what actions to take.
I want to see you thrive in love.
I want you to go confidently into the world and attract women who excite you, not just women who will have you.
I want you to feel intellectually stimulated, sexually activated, spiritually connected, emotionally fulfilled.
I want you to have serendipitous encounters with alluring strangers in unforeseen locales...because really, what's more fun than that?
I want you to feel full confidence in your ability to meet and attract women, so you won’t stay in shitty relationships because you think there’s no one else out there for you.
I want you to feel CHOICE. Because what’s really romantic is when you CHOOSE each other.
I want you to feel chosen and I want you to choose the one that you want.
I want the nerves you feel to be from excitement, not from worrying about whether someone is going to like you.
I want you to be in love.
Because it's fucking amazing. And you deserve to experience it.
Here’s how I see it:
We know from extensive research that the #1 predictor of happiness is the quality of our relationships.
It has never made sense to me how much time, intention, money, and active learning most people will invest into pretty much every other area of their lives (health, career, finances, events, travel, etc)
...but for some reason it is rare to invest this kind of attention and intention into learning mastery in dating, love, and what it takes to create QUALITY lasting relationships...
...Despite how important relationships are to our wellbeing. Despite how much stress it creates when we put love on the back burner.
.. So many people stumble around copying how they think we are "supposed" to date, feeling discouraged when they don't see the kinds of results they want.
And that lack of upfront attention and investment creates so much unnecessary heartache and frustration.
I repeat: the #1 predictor of happiness is the quality of our relationships.
And the way I see it, the #1 predictor of quality in relationships is giving a fuck. That is to say, caring. That is to say, doing our part (i.e. the personal growth and learning) to be incredible partners, communicators, and lovers.
Because amazing relationships don't just happen by accident.
They are the result of attention, intention, and reciprocated investment.
It’s always struck me as so strange how normalized it is to invest in our learning and growth in every other area of life…
...when the reality is that if you feel secure, confident, and great about your love life...it supports your health, it supports your finances, it supports your platonic relationships, it supports all your endeavors because...
Thriving in love means thriving in life.
….what might you be capable of if you weren't hemorrhaging energy on guesswork, stressing about what to text that chick at the bar?
...or arguing AGAIN?
...if you had the support, affection, encouragement and insight of teammate in life?
...if you were sexually fulfilled? If there was no sexual frustration?
...if you had someone in your corner who sees you at your best and can remind you who the fuck you are whenever you need that reminder?
....you have the immense pleasure of doing life with someone you’re totally in love with who is also totally in love with you?
Your love life is not separate from the rest of your life, it’s deeply connected.
Invest in learning to create quality relationships, and watch your love life (and every other area of your life) skyrocket.
Enter Magnetics Love School.
I created Magnetics Love School to speed up time for you.
To accelerate your confidence.
To amplify your romantic magnetism (just wait till you truly understand attraction and flirting!).
To sharpen your relating and communication skills.
To deepen your emotional intelligence.
To strengthen your personal agency.
To open up your life to everything that is possible for you...
So you can be done with guesswork and self doubt.
So you can show up sooner for the woman out there who wants to meet you just as much as you want to meet her.
So you can be the most refreshing date she’s been on all year.
So you can sweep her off her feet with pizzazz.
So you can smile mischievously when people ask you how your love life is going.
So you can be in love sooner.
So you can be really fucking happy.
Because, honestly, you could keep watching dating YouTube videos for the next year.
Or you could say yes to something outside of your comfort zone and be a totally different person in 3 months.
The ball is in your court.
So what is Magnetics Love School?
Magnetics Love School is a 12 week accelerator for your romantic skills, confidence, and magnetism.
It's an encouraging, fun environment of like-minded peers, where you will receive a comprehensive education in everything you need to understand and embody in order to thrive in dating, relationships, and love.
You'll emerge from the program with more clarity around what you want, elevated mindset and emotional mastery, deeper self-trust and confidence in your ability to read and navigate any romantic situation, enhanced emotional intelligence and communication skills, increased ability to create attraction, amplified allure, magnetism, and charisma, and a greater sense of personal agency.
After this program, dating will be fun.
Consider this your dating road-map. Your lifelong tool kit.
You choose your own adventure from here.
I designed the curriculum to be comprehensive, to fill all knowledge gaps around how relationships being, develop and thrive over time.
...so you can get out of your head in dating and actually enjoy yourself on dates.
We start with demystifying attraction, learning to flirt like a pro, and getting clear on what you want...
...we move into how to meet people (both online and in real life), we cover social networking, we cover all the best practices around initial dates, how to really stand out, how relationships progress, how/when to define relationships, when sex comes into the equation, conversations around commitment, boundaries and communication, longevity and sustainable success for a lifetime of meaningful relationships.
And that's a summary! View the more detailed curriculum below.
Magnetics Love School is a group program.
This means you’ll be part of a hand-selected cohort of other awesome guys who are just as committed to attracting and building dope relationships as you are.
We’ll laugh. We’ll have plenty of inside jokes. You’ll see that you’re not alone in any of this. You’ll leave the program with friends.
The cohort is intimate and the number of people is capped, so you'll receive a lot of individualized coaching and attention.
This men’s round will be the second round I’ve hosted for men. I’ve hosted 2 other rounds for women (as you’ll see in some of the testimonials). You will get to meet all of the Magnetics Love School alumni when we have our live retreat.
Each round, the graduates have experienced incredible increases in their confidence and dating savvy, gotten into new, healthy relationships, and learned to love the dating process.
And each round has gotten better and better as I’ve fine tuned the content.
I’m so excited for what’s in store for this round.
Who is Magnetics Love School for?
The June 2021 round of Magnetics Love School is for men who date women.
This program is for you if you're a lifelong learner who desires a high quality of life...
...If you're desiring a pattern break...
...If you want to fall in love in 2021...
...if you're done complaining and you're ready to start enjoying...
...If you want to collapse time and start experiencing the results you want sooner...
...If you want to leave dating-induced doubt, anxiety, and guesswork in the past...
...If you are ready and willing to show up for a transformation...
...If you want to attract high-caliber, emotionally available romantic contenders who knock your socks off...
...If you want to snicker mischievously and joyfully when people ask you how your love life is going...
...If you want to know what it feels like to be your most magnetic, confident, attractive self...
...if you're excited about being part of an intimate, diverse cohort of peers...
...if this all sounds like your cup of tea.
"Cora brings an amazing curiosity to the world. Cora is the Bill Nye of love. She takes these incredibly complex topics and drills them into metaphors that are actually digestible. I get it all now and I’m so grateful."
- Seattle, 32
What is the program format?
The program is 12 weeks long.
We meet once a week for 2 hours of coaching (12 calls)
Each week you receive recorded content to listen to on your own time (12 modules).
Every other week there is a guest workshop or interactive event (6 workshops).
You receive 2 private coaching calls - 1 with Cora and 1 with our support coach Kat.
You will also receive access to the Magnetics Love School retreat, a live in-person weekend-long extravaganza for graduates of all 4 cohorts of Magnetics Love School. The retreat (party!) will be held as soon as circumstances permit.
You will receive lifelong access to the private Magnetics member’s portal, and you will also receive lifelong access to all of the course content and recordings of all of the curriculum calls, Q&A calls, and workshops.
So, in sum, you receive:
12 recorded trainings (plus bonus trainings).
12 2-hourlong curriculum calls.
6 2-hourlong guest workshops & interactive visits.
12 weekly workbooks.
2 private coaching session.
Access to the LIVE Magnetics retreat with the other 3 cohorts of graduates.
Lifelong access to your cohort’s private members portal.
Lifelong access to all of the program trainings and recordings to all of the calls and workshops.
What content does the curriculum cover?
Here is the curriculum we will move through during our 3 months together:
Where our ideas about relationships come from, and rewriting the script.
Part 1: The foundation
Week 1: Boundaries, standards, merging and individuation, and the anatomy of a thriving relationship.
Part 2: The attraction
Week 2: Attraction principles and energetics, high value behaviors, multidimensionality, allure, intrigue, and comprehending the incomprehensible.
Week 3: Who tf is THAT - the different flavors of confidence, cool, magnetism, charisma, and sex appeal, and how to cultivate your IT factor.
Week 4: Flirtation - mastering the art and skill of creating, building, and expressing attraction.
Part 3: How we meet
Week 5- Understanding social networks, where and how we meet IRL, opening up channels of possibility, and how it all begins.
Week 6 - Attracting quality matches online, optimizing your visibility, utilizing social media in courtship, and bringing it all into the real world.
Part 4: Inside the female mind
Week 7 - Understanding the female perspective and what women men on, loving women how they actually want to be loved, and honoring differences.
Part 5: The connection
Week 8: First dates, bold moves, micro risks, upping the ante, and creating intrigue.
Week 9: Getting real - moving beyond intrigue into emotional connection, amorous feelings, and what makes us matter to each other.
Part 6: Is this love? Invested development, getting intimate, and deep love over a lifetime.
Week 10 - Boundaries: the key to the universe, happiness, and fulfillment in love.
Week 11 - Confident communication, moving closer through conflict, and the essential conversations that create the backbone of a relationship.
Week 12 - The art of letting go, surfing the ebbs, flows, and waves of long term commitment, keeping the spark alive, and creating an upward trajectory.
"I was timid about dating again, it had been a long time and I had gotten out of a bad relationship. Everything we went through in the program tracked what I was going through as I started to date again. I wanted dating to be fun, to identify patterns in myself I wanted to break or reinforce. This kind of support and consistency is very empowering. It’s about owning what you want and going out there and making it happen! Everything that I set out to do at the beginning of this program, I was able to do. Best outcome it could possibly be. It’s been night and day for me."
- Portland, 28
What is the time investment for the program?
The time investment for this 3 month program is 3-5 hours per week.
There is 1 2-hourlong call per week, 1 2-hourlong workshop every other week, 1 hourlong recorded training per week, and often bonus trainings.
You will get from this program what you put in, and I strongly encourage coming to every live call.
That being said, you will receive lifetime access to all of the content and recorded calls if you ever need to miss a week.
I’m nervous about sharing personal things in a group, can you give me some encouragement?
Yes! The group learning format and sense of community. This aspect tends to be one of the graduates’ favorite parts of the program. A lot of great friendships have come out of Magnetics.
In the group, we establish an environment of privacy, respect for differences, and mutual support.
The best part of group learning is that the knowledge exponentiates - you end up learning much more than you might have alone. Others in the cohort will ask questions you hadn't thought to ask, or have experiences that, weeks or months later, you’ll have more insight into and guidance around when you also have those experiences.
The cohort is an awesome way to feel even more supported and to practice being seen in vulnerable (muscles that will help you in your love life) in a safe environment with likeminded people.
You are always invited to share what you feel comfortable sharing, at your own pace. There will never be pressure to disclose anything you do not want to disclose.
"I’m in a relationship now!! The flirting techniques led to our first kiss pretty easily. IT WORKS! I’m enjoying this connection that has opened up in my life but I also am not anxiously attached to it either. I know that if this lasts however long, my commitment at the end of the day is to myself now. Cora’s teachings helped me solidify the kind of happy, thriving, successful woman I want to be. When I show up for myself, why wouldn’t I find someone who also adores me?"
What is the monetary investment for Magnetics Love School?
There are 2 options for this investment in yourself. Option 1: $5,000 USD paid upfront. Option 2: $5,500 USD paid in 3 installments over 3 months.
Is the program open to people outside of the US?
Absolutely. We love having diverse cultural perspectives in the cohort.
When are the calls and when do we begin?
Our first call is on Thursday June 3rd at 5pm PST.
Weekly calls are on Thursdays at 5pm PST.
Workshops are every other Tuesday at 5pm PST.
I’m in! How do I enroll?!?
Yay! The first step is to fill out the application by hitting the button below (or any of the buttons on this page). From there, if it seems like there's some synergy, you'll be invited to an enrollment conversation where we'll make sure this is the right program for you before moving forward.
More success stories from Magnetics Love School...
" I got to a point where I realized I've taken this as far as I can on my own. It was time to get help from a real person and not a Youtube video. Asking for help doesn't make you less, it makes you more. I came out of this program feeling like I AM good at this and I AM good enough. I'm super excited to explore all the new possibilities."
- Seattle, 39
"Having these tools added to my arsenal was a game-changer. It feels so good to know I was able to see the work bear fruit so quickly, both in terms of my own internal narratives and being able to start my new relationship. The week we started talking about flirting was the week I met my (now) girlfriend. I was able to put the techniques into practice right away. This was a life-changing experience for me."
- New York, 34
"It's really helpful to know there's someone unconditionally cheering you on in the background. The first step is to know it's okay to not have all the answers, but Cora is there to be on the journey with you."
- Calgary, 31
"A drastic piece of this program is coming out with a community and no longer feeling so alone when it comes to figuring things out. It’s easy to say, 'there’s something wrong with me' when it comes to not meeting somebody.
When you see these amazing, beautiful women you realize it can be anybody who feels that way. You realize that you and other people deserve so much.
When you come away with that on the other side you think, ‘That’s all it costs?’ It’s an investment, but you look back and think ‘I would totally do that again.’
It’s like making an investment in a house, you put money into something you’re going to use for the rest of your life. You see the benefits of this program every day, you’ll see them for 5 years, then 10 years. It has such a huge payoff, it’s totally worth it."
- Seattle, 33
"My whole dating experience has changed like night and day. It’s become so much more fun. I’ve been able to learn about myself and what I want, even put healthy boundaries in place in my friendships which feels really good."
“I expected to have a really educational time, but I didn’t know how much fun I would have... everyone else was just as excited. MLS really exceeded my expectations of how much fun and engaging it would be for all of us.
Developing a sense of self worth in relationships changed my entire framework. It helped me navigate myself and move through the world as a person who loves herself…
I had come into this program really cynical. Now I’m optimistic and realistic. I get excited when things go well but I'm not devastated anymore if things don't go as planned.
I was not expecting to love myself so much more at the end of this program and I was not expecting to feel so excited about dating.
My sense of interaction with people has completely changed.
I talk about this
program to everyone I know.”
- Seattle, 26
"Cora is what I want to be. She is so sure of herself, she has a lot of confidence in who she is. I could listen to her talk all day long. Everything she says is helpful, and even if it doesn’t apply to you she makes it interesting. She creates so many, “duh!” moments. I’m really thankful that she exists in the world.
I’ve become a lot more open, I don’t feel like I’m that person anymore who’s hiding in the corner. I’ve been able to own who I am. I feel a lot more confident speaking up and putting myself out there. It’s easier to interact with people generally now.
I’m not as negative as I was, I’m able to see there’s a lot of opportunity now whether it’s for dating or new friendships. The way I approach things is different. I’m able to celebrate the little things.
Dating isn’t this unknown, scary thing anymore. It’s easier to approach it like...I can talk to anybody. Whether or not I like this person, I’m going to have fun."
- Seattle, 33
"My confidence in grounding in my boundaries has grown so much. I’m able to not feel guilty about setting my boundaries and defending them and have been able to take myself out of situations where they’re not being respected."
"For the first time in a long time I’m looking forward to dates and the opportunity to get to know people instead of this tense experience I’m resistant around."
- San Diego, 31
More from the men's round...
"With Cora, I've begun to realize what my needs are... It feels like there's more certainty going into dating situations...feeling like you know more about all of it makes you feel like you can show up more because you know what you're showing up for.
30, Los Angeles
"It feels like there's more opportunity because of Cora's approach... I'm more confident in my approach to things. I don't know of any other way that you could get what you get from Magnetics. It's a pretty rare thing.
"Specifically with Cora, she'll push you but she'll also be your biggest cheerleader. The first step is to know that it's okay not to have all the answers, but there are people who do have the answers and people willing to be on the journey with you. It really is that simple.
“For a while I was bringing this 'dating is hard, there’s no one good out there' energy to dating and in return was receiving the cosmic equivalent of that.
Now I feel like I’ve reframed to look for evidence that there ARE people out there with attributes that I’m looking for and I’ve been finding them.
In the past I was being really passive in my love life, but now I’ve realized that it takes two people to make a connection. And now I’ve learned how to do my part.
It’s been a huge change for me. I’ve seen immense growth and change in terms of my attitude about all of this stuff. I’m really grateful to have had the opportunity and feeling really good and excited for what’s to come.”
- Seattle, 35